The American Dream: Living It, Losing It, or Leaving It Behind?

 

By Michael Smith

In the aftermath of the 2024 election and the complex feelings that have come with it, it’s time to take a deeper look at the state of the American Dream. Are we living it, taking it for granted, or have we already lost sight of it? And if so, what can we learn from those who are experiencing it for the first time?

Consumerism and Discontent: A Cycle of More

One undeniable truth is that modern America thrives on consumerism, pushing the idea that happiness and success are just one purchase away. Ads, algorithms, and influencers fuel a culture where the American Dream is no longer about steady progress but about instant gratification. We are led to believe that if we aren’t constantly striving for more—more money, more status, more recognition—we’re somehow failing.

Yet, this cycle often leads to a sense of emptiness. The relentless pursuit leaves many feeling dissatisfied, stuck on a treadmill that only speeds up but never stops. Ironically, while this type of discontent has become the norm for many native-born Americans, first-generation immigrants often see the dream differently. Their stories remind us that the American Dream isn’t just about accumulating material wealth; it’s about the opportunities and freedoms that come with living in this country.

Appreciating What We Already Have

There’s a saying that you don’t appreciate what you have until it’s gone. But what if we’ve never truly appreciated it to begin with? Many of us are living what first-generation immigrants would call the American Dream: access to quality education, career opportunities, and the freedom to express ourselves without fear. Yet, for those of us who were born into these rights, they’re often seen as entitlements rather than privileges.

According to a study by Pew Research, first-generation immigrants often report higher satisfaction with their lives in the U.S. than native-born citizens. They see opportunity where others see obstacles. They carry an appreciation born from real hardship, a perspective that reveals how much we might be overlooking in our daily lives.

Lessons from the Optimists

First-generation immigrants teach us that the American Dream isn’t dead; it’s just experienced differently. While many of us might view it through a lens clouded by consumer culture and societal pressures, they see it through a lens of hope and resilience. Their optimism doesn’t ignore the flaws and systemic challenges within the country—it acknowledges them while also valuing the opportunities that do exist.

Moving Forward: Redefining the Dream

To reconnect with the true essence of the American Dream, we need to shift our focus. It’s not about the latest gadgets, the biggest house, or the highest salary. It’s about stability, freedom, and the chance to create a better future for those who come after us. The dream isn’t a solo journey; it’s a collective one that thrives on community, mutual support, and a commitment to shared values.

If we want the American Dream to remain a part of our national identity, it’s time to balance ambition with gratitude, progress with contentment. It’s time to see what first-generation immigrants see: that even in its imperfections, this country holds potential that is worth appreciating—and protecting.